HuffPost: Featuring Kim Seltzer

HuffPost: Featuring Kim Seltzer

7 ‘Outdated’ Dating Rules We Should Bring Back Old-timey dating rules get a bad rap for good reason. Overall, they tend to propagate silly, non-feminist notions about finding love: “Wait for him to ask you out. A lady never makes the first move.” “Follow the three-day rule: Don’t contact your date until three whole days have passed.”… Continue Reading

What Do Men Find Sexiest In Women?

What Do Men Find Sexiest In Women?

You may think you know men (after all, you’ve been dating them for long enough), but have you ever stopped to wonder what guys find sexy? Besides a killer bod and a great personality, what makes them tick? And how do you tell if a guy likes you? In this video, Senior VP of Experts… Continue Reading

Is Technology Ruining Dating?

Is Technology Ruining Dating?

With online dating sites, apps and social media, technology has undoubtedly changed the way we meet and fall in love. In fact, a new statistic claims that out of the 54 million singles in the United States, 40 million have tried online dating. We search our first dates on Google, stalk our exes on Facebook… Continue Reading

What Would Kim Do?: Confidence Inside & Out

What Would Kim Do?: Confidence Inside & Out

In today’s topic, you’re going to find out the number one thing that both men and women find sexy. I’m lucky, because I get to work with both men AND women, and I’m constantly surveying them and asking them “What do you find sexy?” So, I’ve determined the number one thing that both men and… Continue Reading

The Best Fashion For Tall Women: A Shopping Strategy

The Best Fashion For Tall Women: A Shopping Strategy

  As a woman who is 5’7 or taller, you probably have some very specific concerns when it comes to buying shoes and clothes. For example, you may avoid wearing heels for fear of being taller than your date, or you may try on dress after dress in search of something that doesn’t make you… Continue Reading

Petite Fashion: How to Dress If You’re Under 5’3

Petite Fashion: How to Dress If You’re Under 5’3

  Being a petite woman doesn’t mean that you can’t have a big presence when you walk into a room. It does, however, mean that you have to take extra care in choosing clothes, colors and shoes that elongate your frame, rather than shortening it further. I know this is easier said than done, which… Continue Reading

Do Women Expect Too Much From Men?

Do Women Expect Too Much From Men?

We all know what we seek in an ideal significant other. We have our wishlists and our drop-dead dealbreakers. But when it comes to relationships, are women’s expectations too high? In this video on YourTango, Senior VP of Experts Melanie Gorman poses this question to me and fellow YourTango Experts Danielle Dowling, Lisa Steadman and Laura… Continue Reading

What Men Find Sexy: How to Dress to Wow Your Date

What Men Find Sexy: How to Dress to Wow Your Date

  I’m lucky because I’m a dating coach and image consultant to just as many men as women, and these guys are constantly telling me what clothes they want women to wear. And I have to tell you – what men find sexy isn’t always what you might think. For example, a lot of women… Continue Reading

Total Makeover: 5 Steps to A Gorgeous New You

Total Makeover: 5 Steps to A Gorgeous New You

  Do you feel frumpy, unattractive, outdated or overwhelmed every time you look in the mirror or try to get dressed in the morning? Do you wish you had more style like some of your friends, but you fear you couldn’t pull it off? Have you been thinking about giving yourself a total makeover for… Continue Reading

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